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psychopath, malignant narcissist, paranoid pathological liar? Have you been
abandoned or slandered? Are you suffering from Narcissistic Victim Syndrome?
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(VICTIM) I was a complete wreck, doing all the wrong things. Being overly hormonal from being pregnant made the situation and my behavior even worse. For the first 3-days I was texting, leaving voice mails and emailing. I was begging for his return! Even though deep down I knew something was different.
At the advice of one of my friends I sent pictures of the positive home pregnancy test and after I had the ultrasound last week, I emailed him a copy. Before I sent the picture of the home pregnancy test, I said to my friend, "He does not care", so I think I knew then, that something was very different about this situation.
I have never experienced anything remotely close to this before and I really believed that my partner was having a mid-life crisis, and I am still in a fog. After doing all the wrong things and seeking help from friends and family I quickly came to think that perhaps I was crazy.
I then sought the help of a therapist and through connecting with experts, I came across other victims such as Zari Ballard and now I am on my path to recovery.
I know what you are going through, YOU ARE NOT CRAZY! you are not alone and there is help.
VICTIMS OF NARCISSIST ABUSERS do not always have a history of victimization, child molestation, rape, child abuse, low self esteem, spousal abuse or co-dependency! Get this through your thick fuckin skull and get a clue. The victims of covetous sociopaths, malignant narcissist, psychopaths, pathological liars, paranoid slanderers are not the ones with the history of issues or problems. It is the fuckin abuser that has the history. OPEN YOUR EYES!
Donna Hines:
Unfortunately, victims are unaware of the dangers that exist in becoming involved with a narcissist until it's too late and often after years of being subjected to trauma, abuse, and depression which may result in PTSD( Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) CD (Cognitive Dissonance) &, Stockholm Syndrome (Much like prisoners of war victims are left feeling they have to defend their abuser , love their abuser, despite years of captivity, isolation, deprivation, and abuse).
Lisette (ACON Victim) It doesn't matter what you call them: malignant narcissist, covetous sociopath or bully. They are one and the same. They are all predators who target people that provoke in them a desire for something they have, or for something they are. The covert power game and systematic destruction of another who puts their wretched selves to shame is sport for the malignant narcissist. They excel at it. They’ve been practicing since birth. It gives them a thrill and makes them feel alive. That is why malignant narcissists are unsafe for human interaction, period. If you have been targeted by a malignant narcissist and they have access to you, they will try and destroy you: that’s their nature. It's not complicated. Run like hell.
Lisa E. Scott Surviving a Narcissist - The Path Forward.... "Healing a broken heart is never easy, but the emotional abuse and manipulation that occurs in a relationship with a Narcissist makes this process even more confusing and painful. No one understands what it is like to try to love a Narcissist unless they have been through it firsthand."
Knowledge is Power and you have come to the right place to understand why getting over a Narcissist is so difficult. There is no magic pill or overnight cure for getting over a Narcissist. However, with the support you will find here from myself, other members and by working The Six Steps on The Path Forward, recovery from a Narcissist IS possible and within YOUR reach!
If you are you banging your head against the wall trying to figure out how your relationship went from a fairy-tale to a train-wreck overnight and blaming yourself...
Stop!!!!!
You have done NOTHING wrong! You may be in a relationship with a Narcissist and the first step is to Understand It. You are on the Path Forward Now!
Narcissists (male or female) may be the most dangerous type of predator (sexual, psychological and child predator), but not all predators are narcissists. Please watch out for the signs, trust your instincts, and protect yourself.
Lisette (ACON Victim) The survivors of narcissistic abuse are not just strong people. They are strong-minded people.
I truly believe those who succumb to self-destructive acts or suicide have had a malignant narcissist burrow way too deep into their head, and this has led to their demise. I am not blaming the victim in any way; I’m just conveying the severity of the narcissist’s mental torture. The narcissist is on a psychological killing spree designed to murder life: to leave their victim hollow and under their deadly control. What they do to us psychologically is equivalent to someone repeatedly smashing us over the head with a baseball bat. Not everyone survives this type of violence.
Breaking free from a narcissist is exceedingly difficult – more so than breaking away from any other type of toxic relationship!
STOP!
Get Help Here
I then sought the help of a therapist and through connecting with experts, I came across other victims such as Zari Ballard and now I am on my path to recovery.
I know what you are going through, YOU ARE NOT CRAZY! you are not alone and there is help.
VICTIMS OF NARCISSIST ABUSERS do not always have a history of victimization, child molestation, rape, child abuse, low self esteem, spousal abuse or co-dependency! Get this through your thick fuckin skull and get a clue. The victims of covetous sociopaths, malignant narcissist, psychopaths, pathological liars, paranoid slanderers are not the ones with the history of issues or problems. It is the fuckin abuser that has the history. OPEN YOUR EYES!
Donna Hines:
Unfortunately, victims are unaware of the dangers that exist in becoming involved with a narcissist until it's too late and often after years of being subjected to trauma, abuse, and depression which may result in PTSD( Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) CD (Cognitive Dissonance) &, Stockholm Syndrome (Much like prisoners of war victims are left feeling they have to defend their abuser , love their abuser, despite years of captivity, isolation, deprivation, and abuse).
Victims of Narcissism
may display a cluster of symptoms such as:
Disassociation
Trauma
Avoidance of Personal Interaction
Anxiety
Sleeping or Eating Difficulties
Memory Loss or Impairment
Constant Fatigue
Depression
Lost Sense of Self
Confusion
Flashbacks
Anger/Bitterness
Hopelessness
Self Harming
Loss of Interest/Detachment
may display a cluster of symptoms such as:
Disassociation
Trauma
Avoidance of Personal Interaction
Anxiety
Sleeping or Eating Difficulties
Memory Loss or Impairment
Constant Fatigue
Depression
Lost Sense of Self
Confusion
Flashbacks
Anger/Bitterness
Hopelessness
Self Harming
Loss of Interest/Detachment
Victims are often exposed to abuse of every form including but not limited to:
Verbal
Emotional
Physical
Psychological
Financial
Sexual
Spiritual
They often are unable to figure out that they are being manipulated until it's too late often at the detriment to their own personal lives and those closest to them. Many victims are left without the basics and have no foundation upon which to rebuild their lives.
When victims do question the actions and behaviors of the narcissists they are subjected to fits of rage, anger, bouts of depression, guilt, blame, threats of harm, intimidation, fear, anguish, pain, and often abuse. Narcissists have an uncanny ability in altering their behaviors much like a chameleon to adapt to fit their environment and situations. Therefore, it's often difficult to diagnose and worse to understand and treat narcissism which often goes undiagnosed or misdiagnosed.
First and foremost always believe the victims. Never blame them or discount their stories. Let them know they are not alone. Allow them the opportunity to speak, and quietly listen being their supportive guidance. When victims tell their story it's often for reasons such as validation, approval, acceptance, acknowledgement, understanding, love, and support. Never make generalizations about the relationship or inferences concerning the break up. This is not a "typical breakup" . It's not simply a bruised ego or a broken heart. The relationship was based upon a foundation of lies and deceit that was enhanced with an evil plan of mind games and trickery from a truly sick individual with a mental personality disorder. The recovery after being devalued and discarded doesn't involve simply getting over a few "hardships" that everyone has had to endure in life.
Narcissist are not easily detected and often appear shy, coy, very polite, professional and courteous. They gain the victims trust by mirroring and projecting the traits of those they wish to emulate. END Donna Hines:
Surviving The Narcissist Abuse blog will help you look for the signs, understand that you are not to blame and guide you through this most difficult healing process. Verbal
Emotional
Physical
Psychological
Financial
Sexual
Spiritual
They often are unable to figure out that they are being manipulated until it's too late often at the detriment to their own personal lives and those closest to them. Many victims are left without the basics and have no foundation upon which to rebuild their lives.
When victims do question the actions and behaviors of the narcissists they are subjected to fits of rage, anger, bouts of depression, guilt, blame, threats of harm, intimidation, fear, anguish, pain, and often abuse. Narcissists have an uncanny ability in altering their behaviors much like a chameleon to adapt to fit their environment and situations. Therefore, it's often difficult to diagnose and worse to understand and treat narcissism which often goes undiagnosed or misdiagnosed.
First and foremost always believe the victims. Never blame them or discount their stories. Let them know they are not alone. Allow them the opportunity to speak, and quietly listen being their supportive guidance. When victims tell their story it's often for reasons such as validation, approval, acceptance, acknowledgement, understanding, love, and support. Never make generalizations about the relationship or inferences concerning the break up. This is not a "typical breakup" . It's not simply a bruised ego or a broken heart. The relationship was based upon a foundation of lies and deceit that was enhanced with an evil plan of mind games and trickery from a truly sick individual with a mental personality disorder. The recovery after being devalued and discarded doesn't involve simply getting over a few "hardships" that everyone has had to endure in life.
Narcissist are not easily detected and often appear shy, coy, very polite, professional and courteous. They gain the victims trust by mirroring and projecting the traits of those they wish to emulate. END Donna Hines:
Whether you are a victim, suspect that you may be in a N relationship, informing yourself to prevent victimization or if you suspect someone you know may be in a dangerous relationship... Please read & understand the following:
Unless anyone has been in a twisted, demonic relationship with a narcissist THEY DO NOT UNDERSTAND the deliberate and calculated abuses and brain-washing that is inflicted upon the victims by a sociopath, narcissist, pathological liar, slanderer and paranoid schizophrenic THEY DO NOT KNOW THAT THE AFTERMATH is devastating and can often lead to insanity, health problems, hormone imbalance, lowered immune system and even suicide. Truth is they do not have anything to compare it to, they have probably had regular or even messy breakup's and can't get on board with you. They are probably wondering: WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH YOU? SO WHAT? YOU GUYS BROKE -UP, GET OVER IT! That is why it is SO important to get help from a specialist or even talk to a survivor/victim.
Lisa E. Scott Surviving a Narcissist - The Path Forward.... "Healing a broken heart is never easy, but the emotional abuse and manipulation that occurs in a relationship with a Narcissist makes this process even more confusing and painful. No one understands what it is like to try to love a Narcissist unless they have been through it firsthand."
Knowledge is Power and you have come to the right place to understand why getting over a Narcissist is so difficult. There is no magic pill or overnight cure for getting over a Narcissist. However, with the support you will find here from myself, other members and by working The Six Steps on The Path Forward, recovery from a Narcissist IS possible and within YOUR reach!
If you are you banging your head against the wall trying to figure out how your relationship went from a fairy-tale to a train-wreck overnight and blaming yourself...
Stop!!!!!
You have done NOTHING wrong! You may be in a relationship with a Narcissist and the first step is to Understand It. You are on the Path Forward Now!
Narcissists (male or female) may be the most dangerous type of predator (sexual, psychological and child predator), but not all predators are narcissists. Please watch out for the signs, trust your instincts, and protect yourself.
Lisette (ACON Victim) If the malignant narcissist can’t violate your mind directly, the next best thing is to dirty up other people’s minds with bad thoughts of you. This is achieved through lies, slander, false rumours, undermining, creating doubts and suspicions and by encouraging and manipulating people to withhold information and spread misinformation.
Veronica Pamoukaghlian, MA In fact, narcissists can be huge performers in their professional field, because their inflated sense of self-importance drives them on, to show the world just how important they really are. As society commonly associates personality disorders and psychiatric conditions with the inability to perform and function normally, these high performers may remain undiagnosed for years, and sometimes even for their whole lives. The fact that the scientific community has devoted comparatively little attention to narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), as opposed to other personality disorders, further boasts its under-diagnosis.
The narcissistic behavior of "seduce and discard" is part the process of trauma bonding. To be free of this demonic partner, we have to accept this fact, forget about finding closure, go no contact, and move on with our lives even though the pain is deep.
Veronica Pamoukaghlian, MA In fact, narcissists can be huge performers in their professional field, because their inflated sense of self-importance drives them on, to show the world just how important they really are. As society commonly associates personality disorders and psychiatric conditions with the inability to perform and function normally, these high performers may remain undiagnosed for years, and sometimes even for their whole lives. The fact that the scientific community has devoted comparatively little attention to narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), as opposed to other personality disorders, further boasts its under-diagnosis.
The narcissistic behavior of "seduce and discard" is part the process of trauma bonding. To be free of this demonic partner, we have to accept this fact, forget about finding closure, go no contact, and move on with our lives even though the pain is deep.
I truly believe those who succumb to self-destructive acts or suicide have had a malignant narcissist burrow way too deep into their head, and this has led to their demise. I am not blaming the victim in any way; I’m just conveying the severity of the narcissist’s mental torture. The narcissist is on a psychological killing spree designed to murder life: to leave their victim hollow and under their deadly control. What they do to us psychologically is equivalent to someone repeatedly smashing us over the head with a baseball bat. Not everyone survives this type of violence.
Breaking free from a narcissist is exceedingly difficult – more so than breaking away from any other type of toxic relationship!
I understand, and I know all too well that you want to reach out to your friends, your family, your partner's friends and relatives
because you need to desperately connect with real people for help, understanding, an explanation or closure... the simple facts are that UNLESS they "themselves" have ever been in a relationship with a NARCISSIST, SOCIOPATH, PATHOLOGICAL LIAR, PARANOID SLANDERER they honestly can not grasp the most basic understanding as to why you are behaving this way! STOP!
Get Help Here
Be
Psychopath Free
WARNING: Narcissistic Victim Syndrome is not to be confused with a broken heart.
Narcissist, Sociopathic, Paranoid and Psychopathic traits are considered serious personality disorders and mental illnesses that must be properly diagnosed by a qualified mental health professional. They are not words to throw about or maliciously accuse someone of being. Sometimes you might be angry or someone you know is just an asshole.
WARNING: Narcissistic Victim Syndrome is not to be confused with a broken heart.
Narcissist, Sociopathic, Paranoid and Psychopathic traits are considered serious personality disorders and mental illnesses that must be properly diagnosed by a qualified mental health professional. They are not words to throw about or maliciously accuse someone of being. Sometimes you might be angry or someone you know is just an asshole.
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