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Narcissist Abuser-Signs



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If you are a normal, healthy human being, you probably do not expect to meet a person who is a pathological sociopath, psychopathic narcissist, pathological liar with paranoia. When or if you ever meet a NON-HUMAN such as this, knowing the signs can protect your physical and mental health, home, family, business and even save your life.

EXAMPLES of interactions between humans and malignant narcissists. 

Narcissist abuser, Jon, a 46 years old male standing about 6' tall, slender to athletic build with an obsession about it's physical looks. It has enablers from coast to coast, some are family and a couple of others are acquaintances, and one is a fellow malignant narcissist. Jon and Chuck (classic narcissist) are lovers and are considered a narcissistic tag-team.
  
Jon does not make new friends, is a loner and does not have a permanent residence, a career, job or a bank account. 
It uses pre-paid credit cards and it's vehicle is registered to Chuck.
Jon bounces from place to place, full of rage, hatred, resentment and envy (with a God-like complex).  Once it overstays it's welcome, it bounces back to family. It is a fast learner, highly skilled and can master almost any new trade quickly.

It is polite, helpful, strangely shy, quiet, and keeps up with current affairs. It is a racist, slanders it's friends and family and shows no compassion for any one's suffering, pain or loss. In fact it gets joy fro the pain of humans (any humans: babies, children, girls, boys, elderly..).
When Jon lost it's mother to cancer, it considered it no big deal. 

It is very articulate, convincing and goes to great lengths to explain that it has been victimized by it's family, friends, other women, ex-wife and the government, for it's entire life.

It did not finish high school, went into the military, tried to go to college and was unable to complete a 2-year degree, this it blames on it's father. While in college, Jon worked at a summer camp for teens. During it's 2-3 years of seasonal work at the camp Jon began to date (possible statutory rape) one of the teen girls. Eventually it cheated on it's teen girlfriend with her best friend, (another teen) (possible statutory rape).At one point she accused him of raping her and he immediately left the state.

While attending college, Jon was staying (on and off) with family and friends. It blamed not having a dorm, income or stable housing on it's father. Jon has a brother that was also in college during this time. The brother is stable, responsible, makes long term, realistic goals and is a respected professional in his field of expertise.

Jon would often boast about having sexual relations with it's brothers ex-girlfriends, and it would insist that they liked JON far more than they liked his brother. When X brought up "crossing the line, that being a bit strange, or borderline unethical" in response to it's inappropriate boasting, Jon replied "what are ethics and morals, and who decides? I DO!"

About 19 years ago Jon married it's pregnant girlfriend, and they had a son. The entire time Jon and it's wife were married, Chuck also lived with them. Even after the baby came Chuck was still living with them. Eventually Chuck convinced Jon that it's wife was trying to poison him (Jon), and this was easy to do because at the time Jon had become sick with strep throat. 
By the time the baby reached the age of about 2 years old, Jon was divorced, gave up on visitation, invoked the silent treatment and abandoned both it's ex-wife and it's own son. "Narcissist Silent Treatment" 

Jon blamed ALL of this on it's ex-wife, the female judge, the female mediator and it's human father.

Jon eventually became a homeless drifter, sleeping in it's car and trying to work construction, carpet cleaning and other odd jobs. Eventually it became employed at City Hall. 
While working at City Hall, the accounting department was extracting the court mandated child support from it's pay check. Eventually Chuck convinced Jon that it's son is probably not even his, and he should not be paying child support for a child that he does not visit and that he should not pay for a child that is not his. Jon quit his job and stopped paying child support.

Chuck was in a relationship with it's girlfriend, and they had a young child. Chuck cheated on it's girlfriend with a younger girl and convinced the family and friends that she was the cheater, resulting in a split-up. 

Chuck then married it's newer girlfriend and Chuck convinced it's mother (retired on a fixed income) to buy it a fixer-upper home. 
Chuck then recruited Jon as well as a couple of other friends to help re-construct the fixer-upper home. 
During this time they all lived in the woods (tents, trailers etc) in the back of the property where the fixer-upper was located. 

Jon bragged that they would vandalize the neighboring homes, seasonal cabins and outhouses all winter-long 

When Jon wanted to move-into the finished home with Chuck and it's pregnant wife, she (the human wife) did not want Jon living there, at all (she got bad vibes from it and did not want it around her baby). At some point Jon went to Chuck's mothers house and built a small cabin on a trailer, on the back of her property.
When Jon had overstayed it's welcome, it went to acquaintances (down the street) and asked them if it could bring the cabin onto their property and stay.
The acquaintances were uncomfortable having Jon live on their property. For one thing the pet dogs and wolves always barked and growled at Jon when it would visit. The wife did not appreciate that Jon is a deadbeat dad, and felt that Jon is less than honorable, a deceiver,  and does not trust it.

During this time, Jon was suspected of Love Bombing & TRUST-BONDING a 15 year-old (victim) girl. It has also been suggested that she may have ended up pregnant. Eventually Jon used the narcissist discard method to break-up and invoked on her the narcissist Silent-Treatment. Jon then fled the state and went to stay with yet another friend and eventually family. It is believed that the 15 year old female-victim terminated the pregnancy and that her family placed her into a mental health treatment facility.

Jon has a history of abusing young children in any way possible to feed on narcissistic supply and avoid narcissistic injury. It abused it's youngest brother as young as about 4 years old and the abuses continued without any regard for that little child at all. 
Jon is devoid of empathy, any real or original emotions, and has no ability to to be sympathetic to the needs of others.

While in California, Jon stayed with family helping with home chores and CHILD CARE. IT (Jon) eventually started to show it's real face and,  needless to say, the usual patterns began to re-surface. 

In December 2013 Jon decided to stay on a small farm setting with X. Jon and X began an intimate involvement on Saturday, March 8th 2014. 
On June 28,  2015 Jon invoked the narcissist silent treatment and narcissistic abandonment on X and headed back to family for what seemed to be an overnight stay. Then it headed off in it's packed up car, MISLEADING it's own relatives/family into thinking that it was going back to Maine. 

On June 28, 2015 X was 6-7 weeks pregnant and Jon was aware.

A narcissist abuser always has another victim lined up, way in advance. They chase the Narcissist-Supply and they are not capable of being loyal, honest, monogamous, loving or caring AT ALL

While they are love bombing you, they are already getting the next victim prepared/groomed. This is because the Narcissist Abuser knows It's own pattern and It's always on the prowl.

WARNING: THEY ARE NON DISCRIMINATING (children, adults, males, females, family, strangers, friends.. It does not matter who) PREDATORS, and THEY ARE THE MOST DANGEROUS OF ALL PREDATORS! 


Sex with a Narcissist                           Living with a Narcissist

The Narcissist's Denial                       Do I Love a Narcissist?


Blaming The Victim                            Self Preservation

Getting Help                                        Journey To Recovery

About Me                                             Profile of a Sociopath

Narcissism Victim Syndrome             The Enabler

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WARNING: Narcissistic Victim Syndrome is not to be confused with a broken heart. 
Narcissist, Sociopathic, Paranoid and Psychopathic traits are considered serious personality disorders and mental illnesses that must be properly diagnosed by a qualified mental health professional. They are not words to throw about or maliciously accuse someone of being. Sometimes you might be angry or someone you know is just an asshole.

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